Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Feeling, Express or hide?




Gossip girl, the main character.


Gossip girl, one of the best drama i voted thorough my life. It is not about their beauty, or their plots, but i credit on their lifestyle.

The way they spoke, used alot of metaphor, they cursed, they expressed, at least, no keep their feeling to themselves. Sometimes, i wonder, why in this world, especially Asian, people just dnot express their feeling toward other directly?

In Western, they practiced this culture. somehow, they never hide their hard feeling or trying to avoid emotion. They shared, so people did understand.

In this drama, I will like to point out some example:


Lonely Boy, Dan finally get to be S, East High Top!

Serena and Dan, straight to each other when dealing with doubts and trusts. They broke up and together, twice. It's better to deal with the problems now, it might will cause to the worst consequent, but hey, if they did not settle now, keep dragging. Later, it'll be even harder to break or bring up this issue to be discussed.


Chuck after Blair, after Blair gave up him.

Blair, supportive message, yet truthfulness on Chuck, showed us that we must voiced out our expression before we regret. She knew, Chuck Bass was not going to accept her and continued being pieces of fragment in the society, nonetheless, she loved him, she spoke up her feelings at least.



Rufus scolded Jenny on the hijacking action.

Jenny and Rufus, the Daughter and Dad, told her what she felt, what she want to become so no more conflict or same arguements could repeat over and over again, prevent unnecessary fights, at least, good for two of them.

Especially, someone who could not afford to hold so much capacity of his/her toleration, explosions come next. However, sharing without considering whether will lose a friend, or something precious, is what i want to do. Things just cant avoid and avoid, and let it be. It never settle, it just never end. When same issues going on, the THINGS will happen again and again. and our hearts will need to fill more and more Toleration indeed.

Be myself? Or keep to Asian culture? I chose my own way, to be voice-freedom... I don't want to hurt myself anymore...

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